http://www.baytowncommunity.com/orca/topic/-2008-06-28.htm question Sun, 29 Jun 2008 4:14:11 GMT http://www.baytowncommunity.com/orca/topic/-2008-06-28.htm Should married man or women have a friend of the opposite sexs?      Since i asked i will express my opinion....I dont think so . You got married to your spouse because they are suppost to be your, friend, soulmate the love o Sun, 29 Jun 2008 4:14:11 GMT http://www.baytowncommunity.com/orca/topic/-2008-06-28.htm#15 http://www.baytowncommunity.com/orca/topic/-2008-06-28.htm I guess it depends on your defination of friend. I have lots of friends of the opposite sex who are guys I socialize with on a platonic level. I see no harm in it. I grew up with 4 brothers and act Sun, 29 Jun 2008 4:14:11 GMT http://www.baytowncommunity.com/orca/topic/-2008-06-28.htm#16 http://www.baytowncommunity.com/orca/topic/-2008-06-28.htm When it comes to having a friend of the opposite sex and not involving or including  your spouse in that friendship that is where problems arise. Speaking from experience, when I found my spouse to have a friend of the opposite sex; and he did Sun, 29 Jun 2008 4:14:11 GMT http://www.baytowncommunity.com/orca/topic/-2008-06-28.htm#17